too much crap

Wednesday July 15thUncategorized Category

(Another old post I’m getting out of my drafts)

The house we are moving moved to is around the same size as our current house, but with much less storage space. That in itself doesn’t bug me–I want a house to live in, after all, not just a place to store our stuff. But over the years, Geoff and I have accumulated lots and lots of stuff. We’ve done a pretty good job of getting rid of some things, but there is still so much. And as we get got closer to the moving date, I am finding myself less able to consider each individual item and make a decision about getting rid of it or not. Compounding the problem is the fact that much (most?) the stuff isn’t mine. It’s really hard and energy draining to debate about keeping or getting rid of stuff with Geoff, especially when we are already stressed with the move, so it goes into a box.

Typical conversation:

Me: Do you really still need this toy you got in a cereal box 5 years ago and have not used since?
Geoff: um, yes?

Repeat x 50 toys per drawer, 3 or 4 drawers

It’s not that I don’t have useless crap of my own, but in the interest of reducing the crap in my life, I’m a little more ruthless about getting rid of stuff.

I feel like I should insert a “Geoff is awesome” observation here, to offset my obvious annoyance about the extra stuff. When we were looking for a house, much of the space requirements were dictated by me: I wanted garage space for a workshop, and I wanted space for an art room. In the new house, I’ll have an actual workshop AND I’ll get one of the biggest rooms in the house for an art room. Geoff is truly awesome.

Anyway, I have a feeling what will happen is we’ll move all this stuff to the new place  and then we’ll end up getting rid of more as we figure out what just doesn’t fit. Seems a very inefficient way to do things but oh well.

Postnote- this is indeed how it is working. The more Geoff unpacks, the more willing he is to get rid of stuff. But I’ve been doing most of the unpacking, which may not be the best idea, now that I think about it.

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